6 Wonderful Approaches To Live A Stress-free Life

           




Life is never a bed of roses. We always stumble across situations which make us feel stressful .No one has exceptions to this undeniable fact. Facts are always around here and there. Fewer accept the facts. The Majority let the facts go unheard, unseen, and unattended.  Let me go in details. How do you see your life? Is not it a combination of joys and sorrows? It definitely is. Sometimes we feel blessed .In other moments, it is quite otherwise .Let me go straightforward. The moments we feel uneasy, worried and stressful in, are actually the ones that don’t allow our mind enough respite. The more we stick to harsh realities of the life, the more ungrateful we tend to be. Similar does hold true for the happy moments. The more we remember joyful moments, the more our faces brighten with smile. In today’s blog, I will let my readers come across 6 wonderful ideas which will help them live a stress-free life.

 

       1. Tell me what it takes to let the past go:

Continuously recalling what pains you, will introduce you with more pain. Let us not forget the reality: Thoughts are invisible but their impact is always visible from words we speak, faces we show, and actions and reactions we engage in. Forgetting what seems to be unforgettable helps us relieve .Thinking about loss we incurred will make our current moments less profitable. Let we not live in past else we will never experience the joys and blessings we are currently benefitting from. Let the past go. It will never accrue you any cost either. Letting past go will help you live a stress-free present .And a stress-free present will surely let you have a blissful past to look back into.

2. Let forgiveness rule in your life:

Forgiveness affords us new energy. It helps humans land into new avenues of peace and placidness. It saves your zeal and zest. Don’t let you down by ungrateful approach. Let forgiveness set you free from worries. We, People, seek forgiveness from Allah but never forgive people on account of the wrongdoing others have committed to us. Does it not sound ironical? Let we forgive to be forgiven. Forgiveness frees mind from all the negative and unhealthy thoughts .It soothes lives .Forgive and forget to live a stress-free live.

3Ignorance is blessing:

Let us not forget a universal principle: The more we know, the less we are bound to stay relaxed. Humans are always curious to know more. It indirectly puts them in a race to feel unhappy.  Knowledge is a power .And where there is power, insecurity looms, fearfulness rules and threats prevail aroun.People in past, our forefathers, didn’t have today’s rapid means of information. They were rather less exposed to media and led relatively less-stressful lives .The more one is familiar with the world, the more one is bound to experience stress and unhappiness. Never let you keep exposed to media all the time. Detach a bit from the hurly-burly world you are living in. Limit your interactions. It will surely make you less informed, less exposed to negative news and more peaceful in long-run.

4. Let it Go:

None of us can remain in peace all the time. Change is the only constant in the world we share. Peace ends. Wars finish. Agreements terminate. Even life ends. Everything is bound to disappear sooner or later. Are you feeling gloomy on having lost any one from your near and dear ones? He/she was meant to leave. None will live here forever. Let the life go with all its colors .Let you welcome all the phases of life .Stay patient. It might look uneasy to think of .After all we have no options other than accepting the life the way it goes. Is someone leaving from your life? Let him/her go. Will you not let him/her go? Try, if you can. In case you make someone stay in your life by hook or by crook, both of you are bound to leave the other one in lurch sooner or later. Let me know who did stay for infinity. None. So, if you are feeling pain or pleasure, experience it with open heart. Life is the combination of sorrows and joys. Let you live in the moments to enrich yourself with various shades of life. The more shades you will observe, the more mature you will turn to be.

Let the life go with all its colors. Never lock you up in one state. Stay open to all states and experiences .Stay versatile. Learn to let it go. It is a wonderful formula to live a relatively less stressful life.

5. Stay Realistic and Optimistic :

You might wish to marry person of your choice. You might long for the job your dream about. You want to own a spacious house on your dream place? Do you want to tour the destinations of your choice? You might want to live a luxury life with all its luxuries. And the list goes on. Now sit down and take a long breath. And let me know all you can have in a limited life. Wishing for unlimited things in limited moments? Does it sound wise? Think of the person you are a fan of. I bet you that he/she neither has nor can own all the things of this planet. One might look powerful enough to have all one can think of. And it is an irrefutable reality that one can’t even think in unlimited ways. In limited life moments, how is it possible to think in limitless ways? Not all wishes come true. Not all we think of, we can have. We have limited share in the vast world that surrounds us. Never let your wishes put you in a never-ending race of procurement. Enjoy what you are blessed with. Stay realistic. Accept the brutal realities of life with a realistic and optimistic mindset. It will surely help you live a meaningful and stress-free life in long run.

6. Never Let yourself stay Idle :

An empty mind is devil’s workshop. The moments we spend in idleness make us more open to miserable thoughts .Stay busy .Keep yourself occupied. This is the only way to drive your mind away from the negativities one is otherwise likely to get trapped into. The work, be it of physical nature or it might involve mental labor, helps one stay in relative blindness with respect to harsh realities we are always subject to. An engaged life is relatively a meaningful and healthy one .It keeps one bit away from the miseries one might otherwise be an observer of. Stay busy to live less stressful life ahead.

 

Conclusion

In brief, life is full of colors and shades. Living the life while experiencing all its facets, equips one with maturity, meaningfulness, and versatility. Many, amongst the humans, just spend the life. Only few dare to live it. There is a striking difference between spending the life and living the life. All the animals, birds and plants spend time on this planet. Humans should live it. And living a life requires one to stay open to the varied experiences life makes one subject to. For living a relatively stress-free life, one ought to stay optimistic, realistic, busy, relatively away from media and open to all the facets life does appear with. For Living a meaningful and lively life, let it go the way it does. And less one complains in one’s life, the more one lives a stress-free and enriched life.

 

What do you think in this regard? How can we live a meaningful and less stressful life in your opinion? I will anxiously wait for your opinion . For feedback ,never forget to jot down comment to let me know your stance.

Ajmal Khan

Always Inquisitive To Stay Impactful.

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  1. Nice to see you here. Great effort.keep it up dear. Stay blessed

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  2. Wonderful piece of writing.
    اللّه دے زور قلم اور زیادہ

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  3. اجمل آپکی تحریر میں ایک سحر ہوتا ہے جو قاری کے عقل و دانش کے تمام سانچوں کو چھیڑتا ہے ۔اللّه آپکو قدم قدم پر ترقی دے ۔امین

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    1. آپ کے الفاظ ایک لکھاری کے مرتے بدن کو گویا آکسیجن فراہم کرتے ہیں

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  4. Yes, absolutely, life is enriched with different colours and shades. Sometimes it looks blissful and sometimes pathetic. It is completely dependent on our personal experiences and circumstances.
    Life experiences varry person to person. In one situation, someone is busy to earn bread for his poor family just to sustain over there and on the other hand someone is wasting the money and burn the candle from both ends for meaningless purposes.

    The only way to remain happy in this mortal world just think of it " what you have" instead of what you have not. Always say Alhamdulilah and pay regards for the blessings of Allah which He bestowed us.

    In short I just want to say that " Life is a fun for rich and tragedy for a poor".

    Highly appreciated 🤗
    Keep it up 🙂

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    1. Your feedback is highly appreciable.. Obliged for your words

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  5. Impressive piece of writing
    Jazak Allah

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    1. Indebted I am to you on the feedback you have come up with...!

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  6. Impressive and great effort 😊👍

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  7. These are truly wonderful ways to stay happy, thankful and stress free . People with different aspects and experiences of life can also admire and spend a stress free life by following these 6. Good thoughts 👍

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  8. Highly appreciated ��
    Keep it up ��

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  9. You explained well and briefly sir... Great

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  10. !اسلام و علیکم
    آپ نے پرسکون اور خوشگوار زندگی جینے کے جو اصول بیان کیئے ہیں یقینا" اگر ان پر عمل کیا جائے تو کوئی انسان بھی ناخوش نہ رہے۔
    آج کے دور میں ان پر عمل کرنے کی اشد ضرورت بھی ہے۔کیونکہ ماضی میں جتنی سہولیات کم تھیں،اسی قدر زندگی سادہ اور لوگ مخلص تھے۔آج ٹیکنالوجی کا دور ہے تو لوگ بھی روبوٹ ہیں۔۔ایک گھر میں رہتے ہوئے ہمیں ایک دوسرے کے احساسات،پریشانیوں سے واقفیت نہیں ہے۔ہمارے پاس دوسرے کی بات سننے،مسائل ڈسکس کرنے کا وقت ہی نہیں ہے۔۔اس کی مثال یوں لیجئےکہ اگر گھر پہ کسی کی طبیعت خراب ہے یا کوئی پریشانی ہے تو باہر کے لوگوں کو پہلے پتا چلے گا۔
    چوتھے نمبر پر آپ نے ایک بات کہی کہ زندگی میں کسی کا ساتھ ہمیشہ نہیں رہتا،ایک نہ ایک دن ہمیں انہیں الوادع کہنا ہی پڑتا ہے،چاہتے نا چاہتے ہوئے،حالانکہ یہ بہت مشکل ہے کسی بہت پیارے کو کھو دینا،جانے دینا،لیکن اللہ ہی ہمارے دل میں ان کی محبت ڈالتا ہے اور پھر ہمیں ان کے بغیر رہنا بھی سکھا دیتا ہے۔اللہ کسی انسان پر برداشت سے ذیادہ بوجھ نہیں ڈالتا۔اگر زندگی جی نہیں سکتے تو گزر تو جاتی ہی ہے۔۔۔۔
    مایوسی کفر ہے،جو کچھ اللہ نے دیا ہے،ہر حال میں شکر ادا کریں،اور جس چیز کی خواہش ہے اس کے حصول کی دعا اور کوشش ضرور کریں،لیکن اگر نہیں ملتی تو اسے اللہ کی رضا جان کر خوش و مطمئن ہو جائیں،اسے سر پہ سوار مت کریں۔۔
    چھٹے نمبر پہ آپ نے کہا کہ مصروف زندگی منفی خیالات سے چھٹکارہ دلاتی ہے،تو ایسا ہی ہے،اللہ نے دنیا میں کوئی چیز بے مقصد پیدا نہیں کی،وہ علامہ اقبال کا شعر ہے ناں "نہیں ہے چیز نکمی کوئی زمانے میں،
    کوئی برا نہیں قدرت کے کارخانے میں "
    تو زندگی کو مقصد کے تحت گزاریں گے تو اطمینان قلب حاصل ہوگا۔۔
    یہاں میں پرسکون زندگی جینے کے آپ کے بیان کردہ اصولوں میں ایک اور اضافہ کرنا چاہوں گی کہ ہمیں دوسروں سے کم سے کم توقعات وابستہ کرنی چاہئیں،ایسا کرنے سے ہم دکھ/ پریشانی سے بچ جائیں گے۔۔
    میں اس بات سے بھی متفق ہوں کہ لمحئہ موجود کو جینا چاہیے،میرے خیال سے مستقبل کی پریشانیوں/مشکلات کے اندیشے نہیں پالنے چاہئیں۔۔
    اسی طرح جو کچھ سوچیں،محسوس کریں،اس کا اظہار کر دینا چاہیے۔چاہے لکھ کے کریں یا بول کے،اس طرح دل کا بوجھ ہلکا ہونے سے انسان خود کو ہلکا پھلکا محسوس کرتا ہے۔۔ وہ زونگ کا ایڈ ہے ناں "بات سنتے رہو،بات کرتے رہو ،دل میں جو بات ہے
    🙂"وہ چھپانا نہیں



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    1. آپ نے وقت نکال کر بے لاگ تبصرہ کیا. ممنون ہوں

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  11. I love your blog... I am already living a life you said in your approaches... If something is missing i will assure to fill that spot in my life my adopting your approaches... insha'Allah
    Stay Blessed Khan sahab...

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  12. Great work Sir...
    Actually lack of forbearance and patience are basic issues of our Era.
    So yours writing is helpful to overcome...

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