Want to Improve Your Impact ? Practice 5 Smart Acts

Do you think you are losing value? Do you want to stay powerful? Do you want to increase your impact and influence? If yes, you have come across a solution-oriented piece of writing which will apprise you with five amazing methods to make you impactful, invaluable and the most desirable one in your circle of friends.

People around the world, regardless of their color, creed, origin, religion and ethnicity, have been found striving for workable formulae to increase their value, authority, worth ,and impact. Politicians, round the clock, struggle to enhance their power. Lovers, around the globe, are always desirous of making striking difference. The reality is :People lose their value sooner or later and are taken for granted in no time. The following five methods, if practiced in true letter and spirit, are guaranteed to help you learn the art of staying desirable, impactful, invaluable and powerful.

1.      Continuous Presence diminishes one’s value:

It is an irrefutable fact that our invariable presence at a particular place makes us less impactful. The more you are seen and heard from, the more you are taken for granted. The less one is seen around, the more one is talked about. Continuous presence of one at a particular place makes one more familiar with those who exist around. And there does exist strong evidence of rising contempt between friends on account of too much familiarity in between. Hosts have a natural tendency to warmly welcome those guests who appear after long intervals and feel annoyed in case of facing similar faces on daily basis. In short, maintaining a reasonable distance from the people around helps you stay relatively uninterrupted, at ease, less disturbed, more energetic and relatively more impactful. 

2.      Golden Rule of Love: Afford Space! 

Individuals come closer to one another having developed bonds of affiliation .This starts an endless series of contacts, meetings, greetings and encounters. The more two people, bonded in love, come across each other, the less special they do feel and less love and respect they experience. Through too much closeness and frequent discussions, people get to know about the shortcomings of each other very easily. This makes people common for one another that were once eulogized for being special.

Love gets nurtured through distances, irregular calls, disappearances, and absenteeism. Disappear from the stage often. It is bound to keep those attached with you in the streams of love. Distances leave lovers in a state of restlessness .Reasonable space creates comfortable allies. Affording sufficient space to our life partner paints us as more desirable, more wanted, and more special. And believe me; being special is nothing less than being impactful and powerful. Isn't ?

Humans ,interestingly ,feel less tired of physical labor and more of mental one. And the best remedy to relieve a stressful soul is to let him/her free for considerable time. Forcing somebody to live at a place he/she is not pleased at, with people he/she is not happy with ,is the hardest psychological torture any soul on this planet can ever be subjected to. Let we say no to this sort of psychological torture . Keep on changing the monotonous routine of yours .It will surely provide you with peace of mind especially if you are an extrovert by nature. It  will help you feel relieved, pleased and eased. This will surely make you more happy, more satisfied ,more energetic and more impactful in long run.

3.      Value of Salt is realized in its Absence:

Presence might have its own appealing aspects but the value absence does generate is unparalleled and matchless. Do you know the amount of value people attach to someone after he/she dies? And why do people praise dead ones? Simply, it is the permanent absence of deceased that weighs a lot. It doesn't mean one does necessarily need to die for value generation. Simple formula is: Distance yourself from the people you are always found surrounded by. This short disappearance will serve as if you had died. And thus seeing you back after few days will serve as if you had reborn again. Absence is always stronger than presence as regret is weightier than gratitude.

While writing these lines, I am continuously thinking on a point: In the continuous race of getting wealthier, we are all engaged in one or other way of achieving more wealth ignoring our health. We, humans, don’t consider what is available and present (health in this case) and remain restless for  achieving what is unavailable and absent (Wealth in this example). Does not it prove the very reality that absent things carry more weight in our lives than the ones we currently own/have ? Only bed-ridden people fighting with chronic health issues truly realize the importance of health. Another clue regarding the importance of the thing which is absent(lost health). Presence is never valued. Absence is! 

Continuous presence of anything (be it you) will be taken for granted and will not be appreciated anymore .Salt’s presence goes unnoticed .It is its absence in meal which is felt and makes it more desirable. If you wish to be desired, valued and wanted to make yourself invaluable and Impactful , don’t let you stay always accessible to everyone every time. Learn the Absence Management to become more strong and impactful.

4.      Learn the science of Economics:

I have had economics in one of my master programs (MBA).I learnt a famous law therein .It was “Law of Supply”. The more the supply of a commodity or service is in a market, the less price sellers can get thereof .Contrarily, the more rare a good or service is in the market, the higher price sellers do manage to get through selling it. I would rather call it as a Law of Scarcity. By withdrawing a good from the market, sellers cause its artificial shortage ,causing its rarity and generate higher value thence. Similarly, the Sun is more appreciated in its absence. The longer the days of rain, the more sun is craved on account of the pressing need of it. Nature is like a mother. It teaches us through its eye-opening lessons. You must learn to remain periodically absent like the Sun to make people demand your return. Your persistent presence serves like your abundant supply. It, as per law of supply, serves to lessen your price/value .Periodic absence is a key formula to shorten your supply in order to generate sure value, key importance and true power.

5.      Learn “When” and “How long” of  Withdrawal:

Near me, relationships are like innocent kids. They are born by people, nurtured by people and killed by people. My personal opinion is: Many people give birth to children by mating, but few know how to nurture and grow their children genuinely. Similarly, the majority of humans develop relations and rarely few know the art of maintaining and sustaining these linkages, bonds and relations. For ensuring a long lasting relation, one must make one's loved one feel special by ensuring kind and considerate presence initially.

Once you have developed an aura of attraction, benevolence and affiliation around your loved one, you must give space to them .Relationships require space to grow. Having developed a relationship, the art of remaining impactful, influential and desirable hinges on three factors:  1) understanding when to withdraw for harnessing your value; 2) how long to stay off the stage; and 3) when to fan the extinguishing flames of love again. Humans do come and retire from this planet .Few ace the art of getting impactful in true meanings Acing this art of becoming more strong and powerful requires time investment .Invest time to learn this sacred art. There is no shortcut to it.

Conclusion:

To cut a long story short, human relationships develop over time. In order to become impactful, powerful and invaluable, humans do require time investment, understanding of the importance of  absence ,value generation through distancing ,science of being less accessible and rare, and art of knowing when to withdraw and how long to go off . Nothing is free in this world. Everything has a visible or hidden cost. What, in your opinion, is the cost of developing an influential and impactful persona today? I will anxiously wait for your stance in comment section lying at the bottom of this blog.

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